Non-Surgical Cosmetic Facial Procedures from

Click HERE to see a gallery of non-surgical cosmetic facial procedures along with before and after shots from I didn’t see a big difference in the chemical peel before and after photos, but I’m not a chemical peel fan since you can’t predict how far into the skin the chemicals will go – which can sometimes lead to burns. Scary! Microdermabrasion is another throw away treatment I think unless you do it pretty frequently in which case you should just get a PMD and get it over with. I’ve been looking into Thermage and want to try it on my lids! The before and after pic they have is just what I want, a little tightening without looking like a freak.

Anyway, it’s just fun to see how far technology has advanced and what we can improve without going under the knife even if it’s something (like me with Thermage, let’s face it..) you’ll never do.

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Are Fillers the New Botox?

First there was Botox, a trend that caught fire so quickly that it trickled all the way down to a process as simple as a home house party (not at all recommended btw). Now it’s fillers. First used for the lips, doctors are now injecting Restylane and Juvederm into the cheeks, under the eyes, and just about any place they see women losing volume in their faces. It’s true, a plumper face is considered more youthful, but a too-plump face, thanks to overzealous injectors, can look downright deformed. Looks like that ‘overfilled’ look has replaced Botox’s ‘frozen’ face defining the new ‘overdone.’

I saw Brooke Burke on The Doctors recently and I was shocked at how much her appearance has changed.

From this:

To this:

Pretty dramatic difference right? Her eyes look pulled back and the tip of her nose looks different too, but it’s the puffy, swolen look that makes me think fillers played some role in the transformation.*

And how about Vicki Gunvalson? If you caught the reunion show for The Real Housewives of Orange County, you probably noticed something very different about Vicki’s face. It went;

From this:

To this:

She doesn’t look face-lifted to me, just really puffy and swollen. She could’ve had filler injected to make her cheek area more pronounced and to fill in those smile lines around her mouth.*

How about Suzanne Somers? A face doesn’t become more plump over time naturally, it does the opposite.*

As with any treatment, it’s all about the injector. I’ve had some really great Botox results along with some really crappy ones. Fillers can be an easy way to take years off the face, but you can’t search celebrity examples of that because you can’t spot good work. Demi More is a good example of this, you know she looks better than ever but can’t pin down exactly what she has done. I know several people who have had great filler work done. Find a physician (not a nurse or someone at a spa) on Restylane or Juvederm’s website and request a small amount for your first visit, after about a week or two you’ll see the results and you can always add more. Start slowly, fillers last about a year and once they’re in there’s no turning back.

* These are just my observations from comparing photos, I’m in no way saying that any one of these women had cosmetic surgery.

Botox: When to Get it, How to Find a Doctor Who Knows What They’re Doing, and How it Can Lift Your Brows

I swore I’d never get Botox. Needles near my eyes? Just the thought alone is enough to make me cringe, but my fine lines showed themselves prematurely due to severe burning when I was 14 so eventually I folded. I’ve ben using Botox on and off for 6 years (I’m 32). Often I’ll go a year or longer in between, but I inevitably find my way back. It’s always a struggle for me because I don’t want to go too far and look like this, but it’s difficult having wrinkles when I don’t have to and Botox is still the best way to stay wrinkle-free.

I’ve found that ‘freezing’ the face and get rid of the wrinkles is the easy part, but it’s not so easy to finesse the Botox in order to create a look that isn’t frozen or make the eyes look heavy- the common unintentional side effect that’s produced when the injector only learns how to freeze the muscles without understanding how to work with the muscle groups to add lift to the brow .

My last few Botox experiences left me frustrated by how my eyelids appeared. There were a few months where I looked older, tired, and maybe a little worse than if I’d just let the wrinkles be. I’d received Botox from 5 different people, and none of them mentioned lifting the brows or how to keep mine from falling.

I found out about Dr. Sam Assassa (Dr. Sam) through his PR rep and in full disclosure they offered me a discounted rate on Botox. We agreed (as with anything I write about) that if I liked what he did I would write about it and if I didn’t, I wouldn’t.

I visited Dr. Sam’s modern Beverly Hills office in February and was greeted by his very sweet, hottie receptionists (a requirement in the biz I suppose). He asked me all about my prior experiences with Botox and we chatted about my often droopy brow. Here’s a photo I took in March of 2008 to show how heavy my lids looked after Botox. It lasted for a few months and went back to normal eventually. See what I mean? My forehead was wrinkle-free, but this was what happened to my eyes every time.

Here’s a recent pic (untouched of course) so you can see how not having a heavy lid makes all the difference. It’s not a close-up photo, but you can see how that eye is supposed to look. It’s also a shout-out to Latisse. Wow. What a difference in my lashes.

Dr. Sam understands Botox as not just an injectable to freeze muscles, but as a lifter as well, something I didn’t know was possible. He told me that he’d much rather see me with a few wrinkles than with a heavy lid- I agree.

He injected around my eyes for my crow’s feet, then right on top of my brow area to add lift to my eyes. He had me raise and lower my brows so he could see where that big muscle was, then he injected it as it was raised and pressed the Botox into the surrounding area. It did give a more lifted look to my eyes that (as you can see) isn’t harsh or ‘done’ looking. Nobody noticed the change (good, I don’t want something extreme), and I thought I looked rested and awake.

I went back a week later for a few more injections in my forehead. He wanted to see how the initial injections would settle to see if I even needed more. He cautioned against doctors who inject a large amount of Botox at once (what mine had always done) because you can’t predict how it will all take and that’s when you start to get problems like heavy lids and a face that doesn’t move.

The result was a natural looking forehead that had plenty of movement and far fewer lines. I opted to trade the glassy-smooth forehead (which looks weird anyway) for some natural movement and wider eyes. A few lines remained (because I wanted to retain some movement), but the major ones were gone. It was a better, more comfortable look that felt more line me. Dr. Sam has been working with Botox for 10+ years and knows what he’s doing. He taught me a lot about what Botox can really do and I’m very pleased with the result.

I sent him a few questions to answer about when to get Botox, and how to find a savvy doctor who isn’t freeze-happy, and here’s what he had to say.

Portions of his answers were edited down for length and clarity.

Q- This is the first time in the 6 years I’ve used Botox and my brows didn’t sag afterward. How can women find a doctor who knows how to add lift and not over-do it?

A- The most important factor is to find a doctor who knows how to create a balance between the ‘lifter’ (the only muscle that lifts in the upper face is the forehead muscle or ‘frontalis’) and the depressors or ‘downers’ (frown muscles, and orbicularis muscle that makes you squint). Both are very strong muscles, so it’s important to weaken them [properly] and allow the forehead muscles to work at ease.

If you want to to inject Botox in [your] forehead you should use a very small amount. I decide this by carefully examining the patient and their muscles dynamic so I can plan properly. I always say to the doctors and nurses I teach that “Botox injection is a dynamic procedure… it’s an art.” You need to have the patient use their facial muscles, decide where to inject and how many units  before you start. If you properly analyze the muscles [first] then your task becomes easier and the results will be outstanding.

Q_ I usually tell women that they shouldn’t get Botox unless they start to see
lines when their face is at rest. Is there a guideline for when women should
consider Botox?

A- When [wrinkles] happen it’s already too late, they could have been prevented by using Botox sooner. Botox works well for dynamic wrinkles or lines (wrinkles in motion) lines that get accentuated or appear when using the expressive facial muscles. In fact there is long term benefit of starting botox early (late 20’s to early 30’s) because it softens those lines and prevents them from getting deeper, improves skin texture, reduces large pores, and prevents skin aging. So it’s very important to keep up with Botox on a regular basis (every 3-4 months) to reap the long term benefits of Botox.

Q- What was it you did that made my eyes look lifted and awake? What should women ask their doctor to do to get that same result?

A- Ask for an Eyebrow Lift. By weakening the orbicularis (muscle around the eye) and allowing the opposing lifting muscle to work at ease you create eyebrow lifting and wider eye corner.

Q- How can women find someone who is good at giving Botox? I’ve been to 5
different people who had great experience and were well recommended but they
weren’t very savvy.

A- Search and research, reviews, blogs, credentials, and testimonials.

Side note from me- only see a doctor and ask first if they’ve used Botox for brow lifting. It’s not as common as you’d think.

For general Botox safety information, click here.

For more information about Dr. Sam visit Beverly Hills Aesthetics online here.

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Frownies have been delivering Botox results without the risks and cost since 1889, when a mom noticed her daughter was developing frown lines from facial expressions. The pads, (which essentially act as a form of tape), keep your face locked into a neutral state which doesn’t allow for expression while they’re on making the muscles relax the same way Botox would. You can affix the pads to your forehead, crows feet and mouth area nightly or as often as you’d like.

I actually bought Frownies years ago before my 3 year stint with Botox (we’ll discuss that later), and I found the solution so simple and effective. I wore them around the house for small increments of time as well as overnight, and did see results after about a week. When you’re wearing the pads, you can feel how your face moves which helps you to tone down the expressions causing the wrinkling of the skin, while still keeping the natural ability to emote. $20 gets you 144 pads which will last a long time- 4 months or more depending on usage.